I don’t claim to be a world expert on parenting, but I’m pleased that I’ve brought up my son Otto to be emotionally resilient and prepared for the inevitable vicissitudes of life. For one thing, I made him listen to a lot of country music throughout his formative years. He’s learned that many things – especially affairs of the heart – tend to start well but end badly. As well, I insisted that he align himself with the Richmond Football Club. That’s just the way thing are at our place – football club allegiance is something you inherit, not something you get to choose on the basis of a personal childish whim. And, fortunately for all of us in the tribe of yellow-and-black, following the Tigers has turned out to be a richly rewarding, character building experience. We’ve learned never to build up unrealistic expectations. We’ve developed a philosophical attitude towards the disappointments that life inevitably throws in our path. We’ve learned to delight in the absurdities of near misses, where defeat is miraculously plucked from the teeth of victory. We understand the meaning of exquisite pain, the pleasure of returning again and again to pick around the same old scab. We appreciate the virtues of righteous suffering. (“Haven’t we suffered enough?” Otto occasionally asks me. “Apparently not” I wisely reply.) We’ve developed perspective, attitude and ironic capacity that those pitiable Hawthorn supporters, for example – those soft-bellied, fair-weather sailing turd-bird devotees – will never truly understand.
Cycling home from Saturday’s game against the Swans, we ruminated yet again on our team’s wonderful capacity for heartbreak. I suggest that overall, we were probably the better team on the day. Otto responds that, were that truly the case, we would have won the game. It’s a delightful conundrum.
I can’t remember who it was that once referred to Richo, our one great shining light throughout so many otherwise forlorn seasons, as the Hamlet of Australian football – immensely gifted but, somehow, forever shrinking from greatness. I always liked that description and thought it to be true and insightful. This year, it seems to me that our whole team has taken on the Hamlet mantle. But for a few fatal character flaws that have seen us lose four games by a combined total of nineteen points, we could be sitting a couple of games clear on top of the ladder. Instead, the inevitable logic of tragic drama sees us sitting several rungs down the table.
The Tiges played some exciting footy at the MCG on Saturday and then, just a few times too often, one of our blokes would make a clumsy skill error and turn the ball over in a dangerous part of the ground. The Swans kept plodding away in a boring, annoying and persistent manner, exploiting the chinks in our armour. They had too many tedious players with boring names like Jones, Smith, Lloyd and Newman. I didn’t like any of ‘em. Meanwhile, Sir Rancelot was clearly the most splendid player on the park, rendering that big bloke that we passed over in the 2004 draft as a misfiring pop-gun. Our other tall soldiers down back were similarly magnificent – David Astbury showing off his fly-paper hands and Dylan Grimes his Inspector Gadget extendable arms to great effect. Will-o’-the-wisp Shai Bolton was sublime for the first half of the game but then seemed to evaporate entirely in the second. Captain Trent’s hairstyle was immaculate and unmoving and Dusty’s tatts were as impressive as ever, but neither player managed to break the game open in the manner that we hoped they might. Bachar’s beard swooped hither and thither, but his raking left foot didn’t always work to great effect. Players like Short were courageous but, alas, often just too short. Our boys produced many moments of lightning-fast magic, but somehow never enough. I might well compare this game to a bitter-sweet country song but, really, it was more like a C&W oratorio.
Otto is now seventeen-years-old and, quite naturally, increasingly independent and resistant to parental direction. At some point around the beginning of the footy season I asked him to do some chore or other around the house. He replied that the chances of this happening were perhaps only slightly greater than finding a solution to the problem of global warming. Or to Richmond winning the premiership. Furthermore, he said, on the overall table of probability the Tiges saluting in September seemed to be the least likely of these events. Which, depending on how you look at it, might be an observation that’s tragically sublime. Or, alternatively, perhaps it’s simply tragic…
Malcolm McKinnon
20 June 2017
A couple of words I’ll have to revert to the dictionary but a beautifully written summation of the match. Our backmen were outstanding and our lack of a marking chf was exposed again. The greatest error was allowing Sydney to goal on half time. Too many times a goal has been conceded in the last minute of a quarter. Is it a coaching or on field matter to address?
Malcolm-have faith mate, Otto likewise. There’s nothing more Tigerish than a wounded Tiger. Australia II 1984, gone for all money, everybody knocking them and we won. Longest winning streak in history of sports broken because it all came together when it mattered. Lessons learned from past close calls.
Yellow and Black forever.
Hi Malcom,
Very enjoyable piece.
I didn’t begrudge the Swans; I lamented our team for not having a method to counter them when they had worked us out.
I stayed and watched their fans celebrate, just as I had enjoyed seeing the Freo fans celebrating.
Rance’s assuredness during the last quarter is my strongest memory of the game.
Andy
MM, Otto is in good hands. Country music is very grounding, and it’s wonderful to hear of people bicycling from the ground. It’s the best way to deal with loss, going for a long ride.
I do like your observation about Dusty’s tatts.
Thank you for your words.
I arrived in Melbourne as a migrant from Ireland in December 1949. The son of my family’s Australian sponsors told me & my brother we would barrack for Richmond not because our sponsors lived in Richmond but because “Every other team was scared of them.” That was a good enough reason for my brother & me to decide to become Tigers’ supporters. Little did we know they hadn’t won a Premiership since 1943. But when they did in 1967 all the trials & tribulations of 17 seasons were but a test of our blind devotion. It remains an afternoon of Aussie Rules that keeps the dream alive ever since their last premiership in 1980.
Thank you Joseph – that’s an excellent story. And, like you, I take the long view. I was lucky enough to see the 1974 Grand Final and I still cherish the memory.
As frustrating and heartbreaking the ups and downs of being a Tiger can be…going to the game every week, experiencing them with my family, is my happiest place. Rain, hail or shine, win, lose or draw, no-one could ever take away the deep love I have for ‘Tiger ups and downs’ – at the footy – with my family. Although it may not look like it, whilst blue faced booing the ump, I am having the time of my life. #bigtigerheart🐯🙏
Most amazingly, I can now happily admit – WE WERE WRONG!
That’s two miracle grand final victories in two years – the Doggies last year and the Tiges this time. Already I’m feeling that his might presage some more momentous historical shift – hopefully, the overdue death of neo-con, unbridled free-market political ideology, for example.